When I was 14 years of age, I developed very bad acne.

I also had bands on my teeth to straighten them.

Every time I looked in the mirror, all I could see were the bands and the acne.

Because I didn’t like what I saw, I believed others would not like what they saw.

I convinced myself I was not as good as others. I felt inferior.

This was a new belief that shaped my thoughts and actions – especially with relationships.

I was constantly being rejected with them replacing me with another guy.

This only reinforced my belief system of “I am not good enough”.

Result: More of the same.

I finally hit rock bottom and began studying the power of the mind.

One day, whilst helping a lady to overcome a feeling of rejection, I drew a diagram on my white board that completely changed her life … and mine!

And in an instant.

I realised how dependent I was on others for how I felt. I then came to the conclusion that I had to depend on myself as this was all I had control of.

Many years later again, I realised, while I never liked the way I looked because of the braces and acne, this was not how others perceived me. I was my own worst enemy.

I automatically thought, if I don’t like the look of me, others won’t like me.

It’s amazing how your mind plays tricks on you.

I have completely changed my attitude to me and about life.

Through doing this, I am no longer feeling rejection. And this is a great feeling.

I also realise, my physical appearance is not related to who I am as a person. I determine who I would like to be.

If you would like to know how I turned my life around, I have some good news.

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